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Monday
08Feb2010

Weekly Challenge - DON'T Teach Everyone a Lesson!

Great Day Window Three viewers!  It is to be hoped that you had a wonderful Super Bowl Weekend!  As a native Hoosier, I must say that I was rooting for the Colts, however, I was thrilled to see the city of New Orleans win the championship!  Congrats to all the players and fans of that great city. 

This week I want to focus our weekly challenge on one of my favorite topics, “Teaching others a lesson.”  The reason I enjoy this topic so much is because as a society, we are constantly using this behavior flaw to try and alter how others think and act.  In fact, it’s something I am constantly trying to limit in my life.  If you are confused on what is meant by “teaching a lesson” you can read more about it in “Window Three, You Always Have a Choice.”  Your challenge is to go two days without “teaching someone else a lesson.”  I have motto, rather than trying to adjust someone’s behavior through verbal confrontation, simply say, “That's an interesting thought,” and go about your business.  It’s like Jimmy Buffett says, “Breath in, breath out, move on.  Good luck, and have a grand week!  Congrats to the Saints!

Friday
05Feb2010

Window Three Quote

While in college I was exposed to many different classes, some of which I’ve mentioned in this book.  However, for the most part, if I were to describe how college has led to my status level in society, it would be the experience that has taught me so much. The experience of speaking in front of 200-plus students.  The experience of having to find a job without having any contacts. The experience of having 40,000 students at your school versus 800 in high school.  The experience of change. All those things played a bigger role in creating my window I have today than any Statistics class ever would. 

Excerpt from "Window Three, You Always Have a Choice."

Wednesday
03Feb2010

How Deep are You?

Great Day Window Three readers, and welcome back to the Window Three blog!  Today, we’re going to dive right into our conversation and ask the question, “How deep are you?”  Now, I know what you are thinking, with a Chandler Bing like attitude, “Jon, could you be any more vague?”  So let me explain. 

Let me start this explanation by asking you another question, “Have you ever bought something from a company, or started working with a company, and not far into the experience, you realized that the relationship you thought you were getting wasn’t quite what you expected?  I could give you an endless number of examples to highlight these scenarios, however for the sake of time I’ll just mention some industries that might seem notorious for this type of behavior: banks, airlines, phone companies. 

It’s like that trip you planned with your family, you know, when you found out that great deal on air fare was for just for you, your spouse and three kids...the bags are gonna have to pay extra.  Or the credit card you just opened that has the low interest rate as long as you pay before the due date...by the way, if we don’t send a statement, you better remember to log on and look at the amount for yourself.  Or how about that SUPER FAST 3G coverage that you were so excited about...so long as you happen to be in one of these few areas that actually have 3G coverage, and by the way, enjoy your new service for the next two years. 

These types of experiences remind me of when I was little and used to go to our small town’s yearly street fair.  Everything seemed awesome as long as you stayed on the main path, out in front of all the rides.  I remember going on rides like the haunted house where you would walk through what seemed like a never ending maze full of scary surprises.  However, if you ever walked around to the side of that ride, you saw that that scary display on the front was just a picture, and that never ending maze that you conquered was a trailer, no bigger than that found on a moving van.  The experience was gone once the limits of the experience were revealed. 

So often in our world today, companies have made their fortunes off of functioning in this manner.  Imagine what a meeting would be like for a company that designs these carnival haunted houses.  There would be talk of how to market the haunted house and the media channels covered.  A fortune would be spent on doing studies regarding the best type of display to have on the front of this haunted house/uhaul trailor, after all, you want to catch the attention of the people walking by!  I’m certain a well experienced sales trainer would be hired to teach the those running the ride what to say in an effort to grab the attention of the young kids passing by.  “Be dramatic...that’s what the children react to!” 

However, no matter how great the advertisement on the radio, no matter how artistic the huge picture out front, no matter how dramatic the person taking the tickets, there is nothing you can do to hide that fact that, once that little 10 year walks around the side and looks what is behind the big display on the front (and they will), all they will see is a trailer.  Once that customer arrives at the ticket counter and finds out they have to pay an extra $50/per bag, there is no hiding the price that was too good to be true.  Once that cell phone user goes on a trip and constantly drops calls, there is no hiding the reality of the 3G coverage.  Once that card user finds out their low interest rate is now 25 percent because their payment arrived a day late, there is no hiding the fact that just like the rest of the customers, the bank was indeed, banking (pun intended) on the customer being late for just one payment. 

Before we get back to my original question to you, “How deep are you?”  I want to remind everyone that just because these previously discussed scenarios seem to play themselves out often, that doesn’t mean they should be expected.  Case in point, Southwest Airlines and Apple.  Here are two organizations that, through the use of creativity, have redefined themselves in such a way that they are able to offer their customers a much deeper experience.  For either company, I could write a full article on what they’ve done at every level of the customer interaction to offer a deeper, more enjoyable experience, but I’m not going to do that.  Those of us who have experienced, already understand.  Those who have not, I won’t spoil the surprise.  Rather, I just want to use them as examples of what I am referring to when I ask the question, “How deep are you?”

My goal here is to highlight the fact that when you are sitting in that business meeting, there are ways to improve your bottom-line outside of the typical, marketing, pricing, and downsizing strategies.  However, it requires a change of focus.  There are ways of improving relationships with those you interact, but it to requires a change of focus.  It requires a focus on the customer.  It requires a focus on someone else.  In other words, you should not be trying to grow the bottom-line, you should be trying to grow the customer experience.  You should not be in a relationship saying, “How does this impact me?”  You should be asking, “How can I impact them?”  It’s a self-worthy attitude as opposed to a self-important one.  Trust me when I say that whether it’s a customer working with a business, or a you interacting with a another, how deep you are can always be seen.

Just like the previously mentioned organizations, the experience you provide others can always be improved, but it requires two things: patience and creativity.  Just like Rome, Southwest Airlines and Apple weren’t built in a day.  They had first decide that they wanted to create a better customer experience...then they had to move in that direction.  For all of you “Strategic Thinkers” out there, this will bore you.  “Create a better customer experience” is the strategy.  It’s like the old phrase, “Amateurs think about strategy, professionals think about logistics,” or in other words, while those “Strategic Thinkers” are on the conference call trying to be big picture, Southwest and Apple are out there making it happen. 

The same is true in your life.  Let’s cut through the crap...you want more emotion.  Now go get it, and I’ll give you a hint, if you’re looking for MORE emotion, you won’t find it by doing the same things you’ve been doing.  Try that approach and you’ll find the same level of emotion.  Duh.  “Oh, but just you wait, one of these days I’m going to try something new!”  Yeah, good luck with that one.  Wait, I almost forgot to come back to my original question, “How deep are you...”  

Tuesday
02Feb2010

Never Give Up...

The Vice President of Columbia told this actor that he was never going to make it in the business. The actor? - Harrison Ford
 
His first book was rejected by 12 publishing houses and sixteen agents. - John Grisham
 
Turned down by a recording company saying "We don't like their sound and guitar music is on the way out" They were talking about the Beatles
 
Told by a music teacher "as a composer he was hopeless" - Beethoven
 
Fired from a newspaper because he "lacked imagination and had no original ideas" - Walt Disney
 
Were told by Publishers that "anthologies didn't sell" and the book was "too positive"
Rejected a total of 140 times. The book? Chicken Soup for the Soul. It now has 65 different titles and has sold over 80 million copies all over the world.
 
Told by a teacher he was "too stupid to learn anything" - Thomas Edison
 
Failed the sixth grade - Winston Churchill
 
Wasn't able to speak until he was almost 4 years old and his teachers said he would "never amount to much" - Albert Einstein
 
Did poorly in school and failed at running the family farm - Isaac Newton
 
Was not allowed to wait on customers in the store he worked in because "he didn't have enough sense" - F. W. Woolworth
 
Was cut from the high school basketball team, went home, locked himself in his room and cried - Michael Jordan
 
Producer told her she was "unattractive" and could not act - Marilyn Monroe
 
Auditioned for All My Children and got rejected - Julia Roberts

 

Never, never, never give up.
“Winston Churchill”

Monday
01Feb2010

Weekly Challenge - Call a Friend

Great Morning Window Three Readers!  It is to be hoped that you had a ROCKSTAR like weekend!  I know I did.  I was able to spend time with my best friend, Mrs. Window Three.   We snuck into movies, enjoyed some wine and played video games all weekend.  I felt like a kid again, and as my friend Ernie says, “That's a good thing.”  Which brings me to this weeks challenge.  It’s a simple one, but not necessarily one that I think everyone will attempt due to it’s awkwardness.  This week, I challenge you to contact someone you have not talked with in over three years!  That’s correct, THREE YEARS. 

Yes, I know many of you are saying to yourselves, “But Jon, Three Years?  That might seem weird!”  To which I reply, “It's only weird if you allow it to be.”  Have fun with it.  You only live once and good friends are worth the phone call.  And while you got them on the line, tell them I said hello!  Have a great week everyone!